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Originally Posted by Iamit
What I was referring to by personal is the attempt to dismantle defenses by feed back about a person one knows nothing about, cant sit down and talk with in a relationship of trust. This space is far from that. When people get personal here its more to do with invalidating a point of view they disagree with by turning on those expressing it. Best avoided. When it occurs dont get involved unless you want this forum to become a slagging match
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What ever happend to asking for clarification instead of assuming we get what the other is trying to say?
Your seem to be missing the point on both threads.
Trust is elusive and hard to come by. Especially on forums.
That doesn't mean everything that is said should be taken personally.
With Love
Eelco