I have different views on Hex's and curses.
Many say you got to believe in it for it to stick.
I personally dont you can effect nature and any type of being by the influence of weaving.
But it is still highly unlikely you are cursed it runs generations and has the same "'Modust Operardi"/MO
Also bright spark is correct guides in general can guide and inspire not control.
But still highly unlikely your family is cursed.
Here is a site that pretty much explains symptoms of a curse.
http://thedemoniacal.blogspot.com/20...en-cursed.html
Remember it is just not one of these things out of a blue moon but a controlled energy that flows thru all aspects of your life.