So your struggling with letting go and you know you have to do this. You also know that it takes time to do this...seems like you are aware for this first step.

I was always taught by my spirit guides, not to rush the process. Step by step and taking it slow alwyas allows you to stay more present with whats going on in that moment, rather than pushing to far forward, which often leads us to feeling overwhelmed and in chaos.

As we let go at each step, we begin to learn who we are step by step, so the not knowing is often revealing itself slowly.

There is plenty of time so take it slow, it really helps.