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Originally Posted by Le Faye
Hi all,
I have a dilemma and I could use some advice/help please.
My current partner and I have been together for nearly 3 years now.
His first love has reconnected with him and has told him how she still loves him.
This relationship was 50 years ago.... yes 50....
She is making moves on him... he has not responded romantically BUT continues to chat to her via messenger. I have asked him to stop talking to her.
When we were first together he made me get rid of all my male acquaintances in my phone and watched as I did it. I didnt mind but now the shoe is on the other foot he refuses to do the same for me.
I do love him I just don't understand why he wont do as I ask.
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I would question why after 3 years together you cannot have a honest conversation about what's going on and clearly know the reason why he's still talking to her.
Yes, talking to her on messenger after she made it clear she's got feelings for him, it's a HUGE red flag.
Something's not right in there.