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Originally Posted by Fairyana
When you are happy with yourself, a person will come who is drawn to your happiness. If you are not happy with yourself and put into someone else's hand the key to your happiness, that's not a very solid base for a relationship. It puts a lot of pressure on that person and ultimately we are responsible for our own happiness... always!
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I wish I knew the secret to happiness. I'm in a relationship with someone I care about very deeply. But my problem has nothing to do with the relationship. My relationship is what keeps me sane.
I knew a lady a long time ago (she is the cousin of an old girlfriend I once had). She was perfect. She was beautiful. She was smart. She worked at Microsoft. She had a big beautiful home. She worked with starving children in Africa. She was perfect.
She made it her purpose not to settle down until she met the right man. The problem was that she was entering her forties and the men she was dating, football stars, were dogs.
Sometimes you can wait too long to find the right one.