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In my opinion if anyone lent any weight to his demise it was probably so many others that he ticked off and yours was quite minuscule in comparison. I tend to see what may have happened as perhaps you had a glimpse of a possibility in his future. I don't know if you are psychic. I am and things like this have happened to me. I don't feel like there is anything good that can come out of feeling like what you said was a blaming-I think it was helping. I see all of life this way. You did not shadow his future, you possibly lent him a helping hand. He chose another route which is good also, there are no "wrong" paths.
So I think these things are all around us, sometimes they come from others mouths.
Best wishes to your wife.
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