You have to replace the negative energy with something positive. You'll want to burn another colored candle to represent a positive emotion once the black one burns down. So the question is what do you want to replace it with?
white - purity, peace, renewal
pink - friendship, love
red - passion, strength, courage
yellow - happiness, pleasure, success
Just look up the magickal meanings of colors.
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