Hello janielee.
I guess the ideal for any of us is to be able to be "how" we are whilst doing "what" that "how" guides us to be doing.
When being how we are feels it cannot do what we are expected/told to do is when the dilemma of compromise makes its appearance.
I guess only our innermost knows when this point is reached, and that same innermost will continue to guide.
All the best. petex
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