I'm rather young and I've had allot of problems with relationships, I figured out that there are two primary reasons about why I am not attracting and living the relationships I want.

A.) My programming.
B.) My internal love.

So, basically, use EFT on your past with your family issues and also work on self love. Remember your partner is a reflection of you, so is everything around you, use EFT to dissolve any self-esteem issues or conflicts you have internally. Then you can work ahead and re-program yourself after you've released the old.

"Out with the old and in with the new" - Relate it in EFT tapping terms.

People you should check out: Dr Carol Look and Brad Yates.

OH AND CHECK OUT SOMETHING CALLED TEMPORAL TAPPING, FANTASTIC! ENJOY!