You and I have quite a different understanding pertaining to how useful 'tools' are, Unseeking Seeker -
any kind of 'tool', including thoughts and words.
Here's an analog: how far would a person get if he/she didn't use a shovel (or something like it) to dig holes or ditches to, say, 'set' the foundation of a house or to channel rain water so as to fill a pond or lake?
I am a very practically oriented person, so the 'romanticism' of your non-approach approach as implicit in your screen name (and other utterances such as the one I am am responding to) strike me as being as airy-fairy as meaning-dissing (IMO) slogans such as "Don't worry, be happy," "Love is all your need," etc.
Not that such a non-approach approach to matters being spoken of doesn't register as
The Cat's Meeow in the case of many ('romantically inclined'?) people.
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dic...glish/romantic
Am just sharing an 'alternate' approach to the matters at hand to the dialogic smorgasbord.