I don't think that sexual urges are evil nor do I think that sex is evil. Now, having sexual encounters outside of your marriage (if married) may be maladaptive if you wish to keep the relationship. But, I'm not Catholic, either. I don't fit into fear-based disciplines. Each person has his/ her own path. I hope that yours finds you well and blessed. :)

Don't picture a zebra-striped elephant right now :) See how the subconscious mind does not hear negatives. If you did not picture a black and white striped elephant with bright blue eyes, gazing at you just now then perhaps I am not speaking to you. If you did... I have complete control over you ;) . Now... don't kill your neighbor tonight. Oops, I guess I don't have complete control over you after all.