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I was the one that married first. My TF is now married, too. Now is just not our time. It makes the spiritual connection a little weird sometimes, but we generally feel genuinely happy for one another when we know the other is getting love from their chosen person. There's some jealousy on my TF's part because I may have ended up with someone we both knew long ago, but overall, it's something we've both learned to cope with. I will say from being the first to marry though that a TF connection is different than being married. And you don't have to lose the connection, you just have to realize the connection doesn't mean anything will happen in the 3d world. I've learned some lessons in my karmic relationship...I think I still have more to learn as does my TF. So, we'll wait...we have eternity.
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