Perhaps give it a little time to cool down. But your honesty prevails. You can't really go on like that through a life time. You may have to get away from the kids, the house too, to have a frank talk about it. A brief holiday would be nice if you can leave your home in safe care. They say that you have to withhold from kids, sanctions, to get them to behave. Have you tried anything like that? How old are they, by the way?

It would be a terrible shame for kids to wreck a loving marriage.


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