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Originally Posted by OnceInALifeTime
I'm incredibly attracted to him, but he triggers insecurities which I normally don't have.
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You have several others threads about people in the last two years you've been attracted to and/or who you consider to be soul mates and such. One it seems is younger than you, so I assume he isn't this fellow.
I'd suggest the question for you here has more to do with what are you doing in terms of creating these relationships? It seems you're intent on manifesting them in your life. Instead of putting your energy into these "not actually relationships," why not step back and allow something healthy and natural to happen on its own? A sign that one is pushing things too hard is when things repeatedly aren't working out for them.
As for feeling incredibly attracted to someone, that's simply an emotional response. Learning control of emotions is actually a spiritual discipline, one that would resolve about 75% of the relationship issues people post about on this forum.
