This is totally silly but I found that I can actually decide whether or not I'm in love...

Like being totally OMG I love him over a friend's boyfriend then suddenly ----- nah dude that's stupid drop it. I guess it's because I love my friend more lol. But it happens even when I don't love that other person, I just know it's not "appropriate" so I decide I'm not in love. So far I have never experienced "fighting love", or that thing when they say "you just can't help it", they say no matter how much you try not to you will fall in love --- i've never experienced that.