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Originally Posted by Lorelyen
Your consolation is that once her new romance
falls into the banality of routine, she's going to come down with a bump.
Sometimes I think these alleged spiritual awakenings are laden with
selfishness and obsession. They're a convenient excuse like the violent man
in court who declares "But God told me to do it!"
Too often one teases back the cover to see that the motives are entirely carnal
and when that eases off...what's left. Spiritual doesn't always mean "good"
and love isn't always altruistic adoration.
I wish you the best and hope that you're able to accept that even if there's a
possible reconciliation, it could never be the same. Give her the big E
and put your time into the welfare of your child.
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I'd just like to clarify that this isn't a situation where she's begun a new romance with this guy--or even looking to. According to her, merely being around him and feeling his energy or whatever was enough to trigger this whole kundalini awakening. I'm not sure she thinks this new guy is "Mr Right," but it's definitely someone that caused her to re-evaluate everything she thought she knew. I'm not saying it makes sense.
While I do think she probably has a carnal feeling for him, she swears that this whole thing is "bigger than that."
I do feel like this IS laden with selfishness. thanks for that.