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what she feels for that guy is just raging hormones. that is not love.
i recently went through that with a friend of mine. [she had 'those feelings' for some guy at work]
let's just say that the guy wasn't interested in her romantically, just wanted to get laid.
in the end she quit her job [too demanding and she nearly fainted there, she really couldn't do it anymore].
now a few months later, she doesn't even think of the guy anymore..
if my friend told me 'she's awakening spiritually' because of some guy i would have dragged her to the mental ward. i don't think marital counseling will work. :(
unlike men, women are very emotional because they pass through too much hormonal changes in a very short period of time.
i'm sorry you have to be in this situation, i know it is not pleasant.
i think the only way to salve your marriage is for her to stop working there, and find another job. it is not ideal to live in a sexless marriage, but it can be done.
at the same time, if you and her have constant fights, and can't seem to get along at all, separation is better. you have to think of your child and her needs come first seeing how young your kid is. and your wife should also think of her child's needs.
not much help here.. just wanted to tell you you're not alone.
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