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It sounds like at times you have felt the world is playing a game of "keep away" and declared that YOU are IT! I am glad you are resisting the "victim" mentality.
Everyone has something to offer others... something others need enough to pay for, and feel good about doing so. It takes a bit of exploration to find the best part of yourself to offer to others, and to do so in a way that you are fairly paid for your contribution to their needs/desires. Then, you have to grab peoples attention in order to invite their interest. This might take a little "P.T. Barnum" tactics. It might seem a little crass or misleading (because you are forced to use exaggerated lanquage because everyone else does). This grabbing attention phase has some general rules that if you don't follow you might be ignored , and so no one will learn that you have what they really want/need. You have to learn a bit about marketing, but know it can be done in a way that , once you have grabbed attention, you can offer an ethical and fair business proposition that leaves both you and your customer enriched.
Ask your subconscious, and through it the Universal Mind, to guide you in this process. Start looking for books on how to find your special talents, how to market them. And you would be surprised at all the strange, quirky things/services that people make a good living marketing! Good luck! And don't judge your boyfriend too harshly, he is just parroting what has worked for some people to gain unfair advantage over others. He may not know another valid, effective path to abundance exists. Talk about it with him.
Lcuttingedge, Dr. Shaw``
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