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Originally Posted by Chrysalis
Oh wow Kindheart. Some relationships aren't meant to be and glad to know that you got out of an abusive relationship. I can only imagine what an emotional turmoil you experienced. For me, turmoils come and when it clears, a new and better situation comes out of it. I just couldn't see the outcome during a turmoil.
As for the guy you met, if he truly understands what you've been through, he'll wait and support you while you heal from your breakup. During the healing process, I think you'll find feelings for him as I believe those feelings are hidden underneath the emotional turmoil.
Give the new beginning time for the relationship to develop as I believe your first card reading may have referred to this new found guy. Cards can only highlight what will happen when we stay on our current path but I'm sure you know that.
Blessings to you.  |
It wasn't physical abuse, but still. I've had more than enough.
Still though, I don't wanna be with this other guy either at all... I have a bad feeling about him too but for different reasons. I think I'd feel smothered and I'm just not physically attracted at all. He already seems super attached and he barely knows me! I've had a really bad experience with a guy who quickly got attached to me in the past. I just feel so helpless right now, really down and upset, feeling sick to my stomach, since I realized who the tarot reader was referring to.... I don't want this, I don't want him to wait, I don't wanna be "saved from pain". I feel horrible and guilty for feeling this way, like I'm just not being grateful for what the universe is supposedly sending me... I kinda had hoped she was referring to another good guy I know, but no. I don't want this to be my destiny, I feel so powerless... I could choose not to date him, but then I might have to forget about finding someone to treat me right, and I don't wanna settle for less than what I truly want anymore.
