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Originally Posted by jim78
Its hard to go into here froebellian but I cant forgive it when I would do the same now if I felt I had to.
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Perhaps that is your lesson to learn, which is why it has surfaced? We all have choices and by seeing the consequences that can alter them. This is your path alone, no one else can help you. Others can guide, but you alone must face your fears. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's why need to face things alone. No event is exactly the same and to learn to forgive yourself is a lesson many struggle with and some never achieve and so it carries onto the next incarnation.
It's about accepting responsibility and acting with the knowledge you had then and choosing a different path if things altered. If you feel you would do the same now, ask why if you know it's wrong, or is it wrong in the eyes of society and not yours?