[A human Being]

Originally Posted by olhosdeamendoa

Yes there's more than enough evidence. Actually, there was a lot of evidence after only two dates.

Another question this deep and profound man asked me on our last date was if I see someone tripping over and falling on the floor, if I would laugh at them.

I said no, I would be more concerned if they are hurt and in helping them. And he insisted saying "ah, but you would laugh first wouldn't you, it's funny!"

I think that question alone says it all.

Agree with you there, the guy sounds like a piece of work tbh!

I need now to check with myself why I did attract someone like him. And I know the answer: we met on an online dating website, he had many things about him that are not what I am looking for in a partner and even so I went ahead and met him. I should have seen that this is not what I am looking for and period, not even go on a first date.

A very mature way to look at it, and it's a good line of inquiry: Why would you go against your intuition, what's at the root of that? Not always easy to face the truth of the situation, sometimes the answer can be as simple as (and I'm not saying this is the case for you, but just as an example), 'I felt lonely and going on a date with this guy seemed preferable to being alone.' But why does being alone seem like such a bad thing?