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Originally Posted by noyan
If someone had emotionally and physically abusive bad parents (very rough parents from the child perspective) that would often scold (shout) and beat-up their children.
What would happen when the children will go into the afterlife, will they meet their bad abusive parents there, or anyone that harmed or would harm them? Would the parents or anyone else still be angry, rough, bad and abusive?
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Some thoughts based on my beliefs about the after-death state:
When we die we go to an astral realm which corresponds to our own vibration where we are surrounded by others of a similar vibration. For the average person, such a realm would not include those who were violent and abusive, as these violent abusive people would be on a lower astral realm.
Our after-death experience includes a life review, where we see our entire life from a higher perspective. This includes all that we have done and the consequences of our actions. We also understand why things happened as they did, and we may realise that there were perhaps karmic reasons why we had angry abusive parents who were there to fulfil particular roles in our life.
The angry abusive parents who have died will also have experienced their own life reviews, where they see what they have done and the consequences. They may be filled with remorse and regret at how they behaved while on Earth, and they may want to see you and apologise.
Whatever astral realm we go to after death, we continue to learn and change, and as we change so we can move to higher realms. This also applies to angry abusive parents and others who may have harmed us. After death, if we do meet those people who harmed us, they may be quite different.
And there is a big difference between being a vulnerable child on the physical plane, dependent on the adults around us, and being a mature adult on the astral plane. We have the power to make choices, and maybe one of these choices will be to forgive angry abusive parents. And we can choose to forgive them now, while still on Earth.
Peace.