After spending all the money you did may I ask why you would choose to spend another 333 somethings on reconnective healing?

Clearly in your case the energy is not going where you want it to go. Going where it needs to? You seem to understand the ludicracy of that statement yes?
I will tell you that energy always flows where it needs to go for free.
As a so called Reiki master and Shiatsu Therapist I'd suggest you let the energy take care of itself for a while.

No need to make it your solidified energy (money) flow into the bank accounts of any more "healers"

Go out and meet people if you want to find a lover.
Look in the job adverts to find a job if you want a job.
Do energy work if your energy needs work.
get a healing if you need healing.

Don't get an energy healing if you seek a job. It surely won't be on the therapists table.
Don't pay for a reconnection within if you want a friend/lover outside..

Energy work and healings have their place. Just not within those "real" lifes problems..

With Love
Eelco