Taking the pain of your life and transforming it into strength, wisdom and compassion is wonderful and I appreciate what it takes for anyone to do this good work.
However, I would still classify that as forgiving because you're not holding on to the pain pattern.
Forgiving is simply that... letting go of the pain of the past so you don't drag it along with you in your life.
This says nothing about the other person not being responsible, but that it's their life issue and no longer has anything to do with you in your freedom.
Xan
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Go within, beloveds. Go deep within to the Heart of your Being.
The Truth is found there and nowhere else.-Sananda
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