skygazer, people tend to think, at the moment you mention councilor, that you are saying they are crazy. Its just the label society has placed on them, I didn't personally think you were intending that. The main idea around the suggestion, talk to someone to keep stable, is a very good one, one that I fully endorse, but it is something that needs to be handled VERY CAREFULLY as it could potentially turn your life upside down. Nothin personal, it was just slightly shortsighted.