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Originally Posted by Tara_Joy
I was just commenting on what was said by someone else Mazulu. I didn't say you have to love yourself to be in a relationship of any kind.
Though often times confidence comes with self love, and while you can have sex without confidence, you probably won't have the guts to ask for what you want in the bedroom.
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Hi Tara_joy,
Please forgive me if I came across as cranky.
I just want to see people, in this case Spectrum, find what will make them happy. I'm a big believer in the Pursuit of Happiness. Things like loving yourself and meditation are are terrible reasons to lock yourself up in an ivory tower and refrain from all sexual matters. This is the age of the internet where you can go to a dating website, create a profile, add a picture, and other people with similar interests will contact you for a date. It's literally that easy.