See I could debate the points made, but this thread has been mostly supportive and has given me hope and clarification.
So I do not want to spoil that.

If you wanted to take it to the strong opinions board I will follow and debate with you, because I strongly disagree with some of the points.
'Casual sex' for example!

No, going to stop there and just deleted what I just wrote.
Not for this thread.

Mike