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Originally Posted by noyan
If someone had emotionally and physically abusive bad parents (very rough parents from the child perspective) that would often scold (shout) and beat-up their children.
What would happen when the children will go into the afterlife, will they meet their bad abusive parents there, or anyone that harmed or would harm them? Would the parents or anyone else still be angry, rough, bad and abusive?
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If one is abusive in this life, this does not mean he or she will be an abusive spirit, on the other side, what ever we might call the other side. There are different "levels". Often our greatest enemies are our greatest friend on the other side. Only very close friend will play difficult roles to us. This does not mean there are not very negative spirits who have not evolved and are stuck, which means they come with this messed up mind set into this life and are perhaps working to get out of their own mess. If someone is in a vicious cycle, it is not easy to get out of it without help.
If you don't want to run into them on the other side, perhaps work on yourself now. Letting go, forgiveness are the key, for yourself and for them.
Every situation, or event has the potential to teach us something.