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Originally Posted by Enlightener
Yes, be his friend.
The reason you two are getting yourselves into these scenarios is because the two of you are hitting up against each others issues and insecurities (the places in which you aren't whole) every time you get together.
Be friends, let yourselves grow, lay the foundation for a great relationship.
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I honestly think if one or both of them is not ready, then being just friends is not going to be that easy. If they haven't healed or grown, they are always going to be facing their old issues because the other person reflects it right back to them. Heal and grow first.