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Old 17-08-2011, 03:01 PM
Spirit25
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Originally Posted by twinwonder7
Yep, it seems surrender to the process is the best way. Keep moving forward with your life, but cry when you need to, etc. I found when I tried to be all tough and say SEE IM OVER IT, it came back at me even harder. Resistance is futile :)

Thanks for this! Just sometimes it's so hard. The longing for my SM sometimes come unbearable and the fact he completely shut me from his life. There are somedays I question if we even have a connection at all. Then something happens or pops out at me to show me that it's fear that keeps me question it. It's all so new to me and it does frighten me cause its all the unknown.
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