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Originally Posted by ONEsoul
Healing NEVER begins when your intent is to make your twin feel rejected due to your own insecurities. That may make you feel in control temporarily, but eventually she will long for "true authentic" un-rejected love. One that does not snap at her for reaching out to you when she NEEDS you, and one that does not feel like she is in a mine field of "mind games"..ever questioning how you truly feel. What you are describing is manipulative ** Plain and simple
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Without going into specifics, I would say that the manipulation goes both ways since what someone needs and what they think they need are completely different.
However, from this point on I will refrain from saying more of my specific situation and just let the question stand on its own.