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Originally Posted by miss_believed
well honestly the refusing to give closure alongside the rufusal to run in and be able to offer everything has pretty much been my story., and i know thats the thing that is the hardest to deal with
usually we have someone wanting to be with us or offering us proper closure
this is the big challenge.
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I agree with you on that. Realistically if I didn't want a person in my life and had no feelings for them, I would very much be blunt and tell them wether face to face, by phone, or even by a very long detailed email kindly explaining that I don't feel the same way anymore. I think any honest person would do this as well, especially since its been that long since the initial break up. At the same time she may possibly not even be a runner and all this is probably just in my head. And maybe yours as well. I mean there really is no way to actually know if someone is your TF, not even psychics can answer this correctly from what I've read about in many peoples stories.