[Robinski78]

There's an interesting chain of events that lead to an act of forgiveness, the second link being that of a judgmental nature...

No matter what is said and or done, it can go no further unless someone passes judgment and sentence on the said act...

Then, and only then, can an act of forgiveness become a reality or necessity...

So often, the one rebuffed by the initial statement or action, becomes the judge and jury, which is not really an idealistic position to be in, because it amounts to them being in a parallel position, to that of the initial perpetrator...

Once the knot has been tied, it takes a great deal of patience and understanding to find a satisfactory answer... Far be it from me to try and provide one here and now...