If the woman I'm with doesn't want me? We have been together for over 3 years and have two beautiful girls but I must admit I have been unwell and put on weight but I fear this has put her off me and it feels like she doesn't want me. Sexually or lovingly. She says I'm imagining it and I'm being silly, we have never had an argument in the 3 years. But it's affecting me alot I'm dreaming about her hurting me. She cheats on me, doesn't come near me and try to get rid of me...Can anyone help me?