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Originally Posted by Annholloway
On the first aniversary of my mothers death on dec 17th 2011 I was given what I believe Was a message from her. If I read the massage correctly my mother is telling me that I ought to move on from her death. Not forget her but just llet her go. aAs hard as it is I'm trying to do what she asked. Who knows, perhaps I've been holding her back since she entered the spirit world with my grieving. If so then I'm sorry mum but hey she knows that already
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My interpretation is simply that you need emotionally to allow some separation to develop for your own sake. Your mother will be sad if you are still having difficulty coming to terms with her passing but that won't necessarily 'hold her back'. From what you've written it seems you already understand what happens after a passing so your mum expects you'll be able to get on with life knowing that she's fine.
That wouldn't mean you wouldn't miss her presence or that you should forget her, only that both of your lives need to continue. When you've made this adjustment you'll both be able to focus on getting on.
