Everyone's 'journey' is different (I believe) because what one (specifically) experiences is a function of the (specific) nature of anyone's soul-configuration is unique, like fingerprints (it is tempting to 'frame' and 'see' one's experience in terms of
other 'forces', but I think that this just leads on a 'wild goose' chase - no one can be
influenced) by someone or something his or her soul-configuration doesn't 'make' him or her 'susceptible' to and so, in a sense, 'attract' (I think).
There are commonalities (such as 'fingers' being extensions of 'hands', etc.) between people's souls, however, so one may 'learn' something of value from others' reports of 'parallel' kinds of experiences and successes and/or failures in terms of 'navigating' through and beyond them.
I hope you find what the speaker in this ted talk relates useful in terms of giving you ideas about what you may possibly 'profitably' explore as a way of 'tunneling' out of your present predicament:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syjE...bsm v_iME1XiM
My heart-felt 'best wishes' youward, fellow-human!
