Oh gosh,, don't be telling me that . You see , it's obvious now that I am still working through the karma. My husband cannot stand or eat mushy peas, but I love them. Yet it is my poor husband thst has to suffer the consequence of my actions., and the aftermath of my eating the peas, if you know what I mean ( without being too grossly graphic!)... And he's Irish decent. Do you see my dilemma now?