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Hi goldentimes. You're old enough to choose a lifestyle for yourself that avoids hurt feelings from family members. If it means putting space and distance between you and them, just do it. Being hurt is really just hanging on to unpleasant stuff that happened in the past. Move on and take steps to avoid it in the future as I said.
What you're asking is for people to analyze the dynamics between you and your mother. Nobody can do that other than a counselor perhaps. If it were me counseling you, the first question I would ask is why you are allowing this particular relationship to continue on in this fashion?
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