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Old 11-06-2014, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Lilyth Von Gore
I never claimed to have been to Hell. Figuratively, yes. Literally, no. As in, my life is Hell.
I don't believe that we bring these situations on ourselves. I find the very notion of that insulting, telling someone "it happened because you willed it into existence. It's your fault".
I have ended friendships because of people with that mindframe. I refuse to let someone tell me, or anyone, that we made these terrible things happen to ourselves because subconsciously we asked for it. Not without challenging it.
It's not that we bring these situations on ourselves, it's that we can.
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