Thankyou for your detailed response 7luminaries, sorry have not been online for a few days, and of course thankyou for everyone's response.

Yes I think you have hit the nail on the head as he keeps mentioning that he is getting old etc. and wishes he was 25 again (he's 33 and I am 34 now). So it may well be his issue.

After having my son, I lost the excess weight very quickly within a few months, however after my daughter I have not lost the excess weight (I gained about the same in both pregnancies). I think this bothers him a lot more than it bothers me. After being skin and bones most of my life, I actually quite like having curves and decent size breasts!