Well, I tend to believe what Sylvia Browne said - our soul mate/ best friend stayed on the other side to cheer us on and will be there
to greet us 'over there' -
they can incarnate here at the same time, but not usually.
Her advice was comical --
So find someone you are compatible with
and make the best of it.
Just make it through this life already, bec it's hard.
My soul mate is my Beloved that I commune with often.
Now, that is the Divine Romance.
Human love? Been there, done that.
Cheers,
Miss Hepburn
Btw, where and what is NL, Chrys.