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Originally Posted by artemisze
Hi all! I am not a native speaker of English, please forgive my poor language or grammar..
I broke up with my exboyfriend last Sunday. Actually we didn't argue anything before he said he want to stop our relationship. We have been together more than 4years. He said our relationship is too stable for him, he don't want this kind of relationship now and he is not able to promise me anything about future.
More little background, he is a Pisces boy and I am a Sagittarius girl. I know he do need his space a lot. I am thinking if it is to close for me to stay with him these few years? I am not sure if he need any new excitements with other girls. I feel quite lost after he broke up with me. I decided to let both of us some space to think about this, so I didn't contact him since we broke up.
Hence, I drew the cards with the questions "will he return to me within these few months?". The cards I used is "universal Waite deck.
1st card (the past we have) : Death (reversed)
2nd card (my situation now) : Justice (reversed)
3rd card (his situation now) : Queen of swords
4th card (how I think of getting back together) : 5 of wands
5th card (how he think of getting back together) : Page of swords (reversed)
6th card (what would be the challenge for this) : Judgement
7th card (what would be helpful for this) : 6 of swords
8th card (what I did know) : The Hermit (reversed)
9th card (overall result) : The Sun
I am ready to change my will and definitely want to fix the problems we have got. But I am lost when I read this result. Does the result mean that we are not getting back together?
Is Death be a good signal for this situation now?
For Queen of swords, does it represent that although I am with him, he still feel lonely and depressed?
With the Page of swords, does it mean that he think he has been misunderstood and he prefer stay alone?
Actually I did not understand quite clearly about the judgement here, does he want to have conversation with me about the situation we are faced now?
With the 6 of swords, does it mean that I should slow down my step and keep stay away from him, to let him have more space to realise that we can come across the problem together?
For the reversed Hermit, I am thinking that if this is very negative position. Does it shown that he is now looking forward to have new relationship with the others? or this represented that he is not that into me any more?
For the Sun, I know it is a really positive card. But does it refer to our love relationship? I am not sure if it is possible when I got a reversed Hermit, the result of us will be the Sun.
I know it is a bit trouble and you guys may need to spend a lot of time to help with my reading, but please, I really need you guys' help!
Thank you very very much in advance!
Cheers!
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Death reversed. Reliving an old pattern either for him or you , extending a relationship more than is due. Karmic resolving in finality.
Justice reversed. Being aware of all sides of the relationship, yet not being able to fully let go, needing more perspective and time.
Queen of swords. Having an image of someone who might not be compatible or seeing detachment from another, in the sense of mismatch personally.
Five of wands. Conflict resolution, or not being afraid of what is clearly not working, instead wanting to work through it. Re connection through networking/ mutual friends.
Page of swords. Keeping brash feelings aside and bringing more softer aspects in picture just to meet a common ground to communicate. Being in denial of what does not feel right.
Judgement. It feels there is a lot of karmic energy , and letting go of that energy not just from this partnership, but others too. This karmic pattern could be for one of the partners in the relationship. a growth is happening in this area, rather than knowing oneself fully yet to embrace newer/ long term partnerships.
Six of swords. Accepting feelings of defeat if any and allowing oneself to move ahead.
Hermit. Knowing clear differences and know one's worth compared to a partner. Personal differences that did not align in a partnership. Feeling one's true worth compared to a partner.
Sun. This is a good card and maybe this for the best ultimately. And that there will not be an extension of something that wasn't working out.
Just my interpretation of this.