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Originally Posted by AraceliCianna
I agree with Lorelyn that relationships should be uncomplicated, especially more so spiritual ones (whatever you want to call them). I don't think there's much more for me to add there. I also agree your friend cares about you and just wants the best for you. Maybe just ask her not to talk about it anymore and continue your friendship without the relationship on your minds.
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Actually is not the relationship that requires a lot of work or is complicated. We do get along really well.
What I feel requires work is me with myself.
As I said previously, I've had guys before who would enable the kind of behavior I was having (lashing out, get into a bad mood, etc) and I would lose respect for them and they were just enabling my behavior.
This guy now has boundaries and he doesn't participate in this kind of childish behavior from me when I am like that. That is what I need to work on, with myself.
From what I know, this is the "normal" dynamic between TF's.