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From her point of view your TF is incompatible with you. She sees you fight and reunite, break up and reunite again, and to her it looks like you simply are not going to work out as a couple.
I can totally understand her concerns. She means well, and cannot for the life of her comprehend why you are so determined to make things work out with him.
If you REALLY believe this fellow is your TF you probably need to just quietly let your friendship with this girl fade into the background. She's seeing through 3D world eyes what you feel and believe on a spiritual level. There's no way to explain it, no way to convince her.
Why is she annoyed with you? Because she cares. Because she thinks you are making a dreadful mistake that will only break your heart. If your relationship with your TF smooths out and lasts, she may eventually come around to your way of thinking. But as long as you have the on-and-off dynamic going on, she won't. Be grateful that she cares so much for your well-being.
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