Originally Posted by astralsuzy

Hi Lorelyen, you were right it was gossiping. It has caused a lot of damage. The family is very hurt and upset. It will take a long time to get over it. My sister in law who said my brother was having an affair regrets saying it and wishes she never said it. I said to my family you have to forgive. You do not have to like her but you have to forgive. If you do not forgive you become angry. I went through that a few years ago. My cousin did something that upset me a lot. I have never felt that way before. It was terrible. I only had to hear her name and I was angry. To be angry you cannot be happy. I would not wish that on my worst enemy.