Are we talking about the Lilith that is the beautiful dark (not evil) queen
One thing is to get told something: anothers perception of your energies and the energies that surrounds you. Another thing is perceiving it yourself. Keep it as a possibility and let it soak in and maybe in time the answer will reveal itself to you. Possibilities: it was you; you were closely connected to her in a past life; she is your guide; you admired her in a past life: the list of possibilities can be as long as one wants to make it. Figure out where the information fits into the ever growing puzzle that is you...