Originally Posted by ad infinitum
I agree. When you have a dream about someone it's because you're thinking of them. It isn't anything the other person is doing or doing to you. Your dreams are all you. While the other person may or may not have feelings for you they aren't giving you dreams, or entering your mind during dreams, or putting thoughts in your mind during dreams. Believing otherwise is dangerous.
But that isn't true. I've had random people pop up in dreams that I never even gave a second thought to 10 years later.