[Xan]

Well, I got back a pair of earplugs in my mailbox. For some reason, I just fell apart sobbing. This has been since last night into this morning. I just feel so powerless, like such a victim ... :C

Maybe I can create an affirmation of his getting a nice new promotion and just moving someplace far far away?

Kacey... We don't try to manipulate other people with affirmations. In the first place it's bad business, and in the second it rarely works because it's not from genuine caring.

Affirmations are for each of us, for our own and loved ones healing and improved well being.


maybe the ROOT problem is I felt victimized for so long (childhood trauma, bad marriage, difficult post divorce: my first and second chakras are very weak, according to my Reiki provider ) that I just keep attracting bullies into my field of experience. Maybe a better affirmation for me would be something along the lines about being a victor, not a victim any longer?

Now you know what to affirm... and even more, find ways to heal this emotional issue. Your difficult past can be released so you may be free of it.

Here are three simple methods I know are effective for this:

The Healing Code - http://www.spiritualforums.com/vb/sh...ad.php?t=31115

EFT - Emotional Freedom Techniques - http://www.spiritualforums.com/vb/showthread.php?t=4478

MIR-Method - http://www.spiritualforums.com/vb/showthread.php?t=29467


See, it's working already. Now you're hearing of good ways to get free of feeling like a victim.


Xan