It's a perennial problem, finding time. Also location. One of my associates keen on ritual is in a position akin to yours. With a family now, he's frustrated by having no room to devote to ritual work and solitude being rarer than hens' teeth. He's adaptable though, a bit like me fitting things around work and social engagements as best we can.

I'm not one to boast about attraction or anything - well, I'm perfect apart from the conceit but I haven't had to spell others into attraction.
Then, I'm a Leo and these things come naturally!!!!

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