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Druidess,
in my opinion, you have already solved your problem for 50%, because:
- you realize that you have a problem
- you can describe the problem
- you are commited to solving it
you just need to find the root cause and use appropriate technique to clear it.
let's do a short technical analysis what could go wrong and causes the guy to stay in your head:
1) GENERAL UNRESOLVED EMOTIONS
during your short "relationship", you experienced very strong emotion with the guy but you quit the relationship too early before the ongoing emotions managed to settle and become resolved.. this resulted in storing active emotional fragment in your memory that lives its own life and keeps reminding the guy to you until you resolve the emotions..
how to solve it:
take 5 sheets of paper, lock yourself in a room, turn off your cell phone, tell the others not to interrupt you, and start writing about everything that comes to your mind when you think of that guy.. after few minutes you get into trans and you start writing maybe some weird things, but don't stop and carry on until 5 sheets are filled from top to bottom. when you are done, don't read what you have written, just get rid of the paper.. 1x repeat this exercise after a week
2) FATHER PROBLEM
the guy you met reminds you on the subconscious level of your father (fathers are the "first" partners of their daughters) and if this is the case, very strong connection could have been made in your memory records as a result of this errorneous association.
how to solve it:
inspect your current relationship with your father and solve any outstanding issues with him, then write down on a paper the characteristics of your father in the 1st column and characteristics of the guy in the 2nd column - the goal is to clearly persuade your subconscious mind that the guy is no way your father
3) PAST LIFE ISSUE
one of the situations you experienced with the guy might have been similar as the ones you had already experienced in one of your past lives. This could result in opening a active channel to your past life and the past life energy is now leaking into your current life.
how to solve it:
identify underlying past life, research it, have it cleared and close it.. regression therapies are a good techniques to try
4) ENERGETIC OBJECT IN YOUR AURA
you never know but the guy might have implanted an energetic object in your aura which causes you to think about him constantly (maybe he is not to be blamed and didn't do it on purpose)
how to solve it:
common rituals with fire, water, carbon, candles can be used to dissolve the object
5) SURROUNDINGS
maybe there is an object in your surroundings/home/work that reminds you of the guy.
how to solve it:
take some time to analyze the surroundings once more.. if you are not successful, try at least to rearrange objects (recoloring the walls is a good idea) in the places you spend the most of the time, so you get different energy feeling from that place
Druidess - if you feel you need more help with 1) 3) 4) let me know, I can try to help you by doing Spiritual Response Therapy clearing as this technique could bring some positive effects for you.. for free
Urfus
p.s. I apologize for long comment
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